Perfect the Small Romantic Gesture

Big gestures are great in movies. But, in the real world with kids, bills, jobs, and chores, everyday romance is better than any simple gesture of love. Romance starts with the little things. Until you clear it up, all swipe gestures will fail. That’s not to say they won’t work. A large 10-carat pink diamond will give a boost to the relationship. But unless you play for the NBA and are prepared to draw your black card every few months, it’s best to get the basics straight.

Small, romantic gestures can be more powerful than their expensive counterparts. One way to reach a woman’s heart is through her feelings. She needs an emotional connection for everything to feel right. The little things that show that you consider her happiness and well-being make her feel appreciated, loved and adored. And that, my friend, is romance.

Is the concept still confusing? Here are some ideas to try:

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1. Praise her regularly. Women love to give and receive compliments. It doesn’t matter if you compliment the twinkle in their eyes when they laugh or a new spice in the meatloaf. Just make it as specific and sincere as possible.

2. Touch her lovingly in everyday situations. Put your hand in her lap under the table or put your arm around her when you watch TV. Physical contact, without expectations, builds a connection and is the epitome of romance.

3. Call her by a pet name. Pet names are nicknames made perfect. A carefully given pet name sets your relationship apart from others. The right name shows that you care enough to give your special bond a proper intimate title. No matter how silly you are, the key is to use the name with confidence.

4. Bring him something without asking. For example, when you’re at the gas station, buy your favorite drink when you pay for gas. Give him the drink with a kiss on the cheek. Or just bring her a glass of ice cold water on a hot summer day. This is more about being thoughtful than reading her mind – simple and romantic.

5. Look in their direction. Romantic body language goes a long way during everyday activities. A special look across the room while the children are playing creates a special moment. Get it right, and a deep, focused gaze becomes an invitation for so much more to come.

6. Show yourself as a teenager. Yes, you are all adults, but teenagers know how to forget about caution and enjoy life. Public displays of affection are very romantic. So, flirt, hold hands, kiss in public places and announce your love to the world.

7. Help with “their” homework. Does she always load and unload the dishwasher? Take the initiative and complete this task for her. Better yet, when she gets up to clear the table, take away her dishes and gently say, “Honey, I’ll take care of this. Go relax. You deserve a break.” don’t ask. Just tell her you want to help, go ahead and do it the way SHE likes it done. If she likes her glasses on the top shelf, put them there and don’t forget to scrub the pots and wipe down the counter.

8. Pamper her properly. Offer to scrub her back when she’s in the shower, and don’t go in unless she gives you an invitation. Give him a shoulder massage of more than 60 seconds. Go all out and paint their toes. Don’t worry; boys never have to know.