Every year we look for something interesting to add to our leisure list. We have many interesting activities to feel freshness, joy and happiness. We wish to have something new and interesting. It’s very boring if we always keep the status quo. Some cool things long-married couples can do include:

A. Go out on dates at least once a month. We should go without the children or the grandchildren. We can go to the beach and spend the night in the chalet. We can enjoy various activities with the two of us, for example, having a barbecue, drinking a few glasses of beer or wine.

b. Going on a honeymoon to new places if we have enough money. This needs early planning where we can save enough money.

During our courtship or honeymoon there are many things we can do to renew our marriage relationship:

A. Discuss our future goals. We can discuss where to stay and what to do in old age. Who will take care of us when we are old enough?

b. Renew our marriage relationship. We discuss our past achievements or failures. We can discuss how to improve our relationship.

However, in all our discussions:

A. We must pray first;

b. We must agree not to fight or have misunderstandings;

against In any situation, we promise to stay calm and love each other.

After our discussion, we must agree:

A. Improve and make action plans (what, when, where, who and how?);

b. Implement the action plan together;

against Evaluate the action plan and carry out corrective actions together.

Following the above activities, our married life will always be very creative. It is because we have something interesting to look forward to and for continuous improvement. Therefore, as married couples, we must do something now. We should date more together and go on our honeymoon often. It is a good thing to do and go out and explore more about our married life relationship. The creative marriage relationship needs creative thinking to bring lasting joy and happiness together.

We can make a plan now where to go next. Maybe we can ask our children to help financially. Our children are very happy if they know that we are going on new dates or we are going on our honeymoon. Our children like their parents to be happy and have a good relationship at all times. Both money and time are worth a lot to do healthy activities to bring up a happy family.

God bless your Christian marriages.