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Top 10 Ways to Market Your Business with Top 10 Lists

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Basic top 10 lists can go a long way in marketing your business online, simply because they have ideas that your market is looking for. When you share the top ideas, especially when it’s part of the list, it shows up in searches for other parts of the list. You are IN the list, therefore, they also find you.

When I started building my business, there was a guy who did nothing but write top 10 lists of whatever he could think of. His lists directed people to their favorite top ten of anything he wrote, and usually those were the specific things he was interested in. I may never forget my favorite from his lists. He had one called The 10 Best Hot Dog Stands in Denver. I remember driving home one afternoon from a meeting, hungry, tired, frustrated that the meeting didn’t go particularly well, and there was a sign hanging over the sidewalk that said “Custer’s Hot Dogs.” I had never been to the place but I love hotdogs so I had read the article. I remembered that Custer’s was number 3 on his list, so I pulled over and parked.

That was the best hot dog I remember having. I went back to my computer, found your website, and started looking for the other hot dog stands you recommended. WOW! Those were some amazing Hot Dogs. And I’ve been back to several of those hot dog stands since then, even though their website completely disappeared for nearly five years. If I’m in the neighborhood, I still stop at those hot dog stands. That’s good marketing!

If you’re looking for a great way to market your business, I say “Top 10 Lists” are the WAY to go.

Ten Top 10 Lists You Could Write To Market Your Business

  1. Top 10 Biggest Competitors
  2. Top 10 newest concepts
  3. The 10 easiest ways to achieve a goal
  4. The 10 most picturesque places to do
  5. The 10 most functional habits of leaders
  6. The 10 most effective ways to do it
  7. The 10 busiest days of the year
  8. The 10 simplest step-by-step programs
  9. Top 10 phrases to search for in your industry
  10. Top 10 Marketing Ideas for Your Niche

Now just change the words that come after Top 10 and add your own thoughts, then write your top ten list to market your business online. Easy, easy, right?

I can think of a million of these, how about you?

Home Kitchen

The latest summer trend: glamping

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Camping has reinvented itself and become more appealing to even the most glamorous and upper-class population. A trend is gaining popularity around the world known as glamping or glamorous camping. Described as a truly unique experience with a rare mix of wild and refined, rough and tumble, glamping is sure to give a whole new meaning to preparing for camp. Inspired by wealthy concert goers and luxury safaris, the days of camping in tents are long gone. Who says camping can’t be five star? High-end designer camping gear has hit the shelves and glamping resorts are opening their doors in the world’s most beautiful places. Glamorous camping is all about comfort and luxury. Eco-consciousness is all the rage and going green is a strong theme at most glamping resorts. Activities are part of the package at most resorts. Horseback riding, kayaking, fishing, private boats, swimming, safari, hiking, rafting, wildlife viewing – this list goes on. These resorts vary in price, but most can be very expensive, fully equipped with room service, massages, and butlers. For example, in the summer months, two adults can pay around $8,500 to spend three nights in a tent at the Clayoquot Wilderness Resort in British Columbia, Canada. Entire families routinely spend $50,000 on a week-long glamping trip to Clayoquot. Don’t let this disappoint you if you can’t find it in your budget to visit one of these luxury glamping resorts. Many glampers have taken matters into their own hands and are organizing their camping trips themselves. Start camping in style. Create your own oasis wherever you go. Both Polly and Barbie have their own glamping setup and so can you. That is how.

Shelter Options:

The first thing you need to do is establish what type of refuge you want for your glamping trip. If you decide to use a tent, you need to make sure that it is waterproof. Look for tents that can access electrical power if needed. Also many companies lease and lease shelters for your use. Sometimes this is a very good option, especially when it comes to large tents. It allows you to try before you take out your wallet.

  • Tent (Look for color and patterns. More and more camping supply stores are offering options other than the military green we’re so used to seeing.)
  • Bell Tent
  • Large tent with standing room
  • yurt
  • tipis
  • Cabin

Glamping list:

Here is a list of ideas. It’s a good idea to make your own list. Everyone has different tastes and different things that make them feel comfortable. Glamping is all about comfort, so get creative. The more creative, the better. Glamping is all about fun. Fashion is included. Layered clothing is a good idea. You’ll also want to have some waterproof clothing. Remember to try to be eco-conscious as much as possible. If you love the earth, she will love you.

  • Unbreakable barware
  • Mirror
  • First aid box
  • Ice
  • can opener
  • Garbage bags
  • Frisbee
  • Umbrella
  • Radio
  • Heater
  • GOGIRL Portable Urinal Device (For those times when you’re far from a bathroom and can’t afford to wait.)
  • Ventilator
  • Comfortable chairs
  • Firewood
  • fire starters
  • Citronella candles, Insect repellent
  • Add style to your haven by using area rugs as floor coverings.
  • rope
  • extra batteries
  • tent repair kit
  • candles
  • Heater
  • Assortment of bungee cords
  • clothes pins
  • Fabric (to flutter in the wind). For your bed, of course.
  • nails and screws
  • Tent organizers (collapsible storage bins, shelves, etc.)
  • air pump
  • small hand ax
  • small tool kit
  • Pair of scissors
  • hand axis
  • Books to read
  • Cooler (preferably on wheels)
  • barbecue and barbecue
  • salt and pepper
  • condiments
  • Aluminum foil and plastic wrap
  • elegant tableware
  • camp lantern
  • Cooking oil
  • Toiletries
  • Waterproof clothing
  • Music
  • Acoustic guitar and guitar player.
  • nonstick skillet
  • bread to heat water
  • heating pads or gloves
  • kitchen towels
  • Lighting options: headlights, flashlights, lamps, etc.
  • portable shower tent
  • Biodegradable shampoos and soaps
  • Dustpan and hand broom for your shop
  • outdoor rug
  • Coffee or tea and a way to prepare it along with matching cups and saucers
  • tablecloths
  • Towels and Cloths
  • windbreak
  • Hammock
  • portable shower unit
  • portable toilet unit
  • Utensils
  • cloakroom unit
  • doormat
  • Oven
  • Blankets
  • laundry basket
  • A hammer for driving stakes (if you have a tent) or anything else that requires a bit of work.
  • Shoes
  • Wear
  • Games
  • Pijama
  • Nice and comfortable wardrobe
  • Wellies (Wellington boots)
  • Electrical Connection Plug Adapter
  • table and stools
  • Good night sleeping bag that looks as good as it makes you feel.
  • Comfortable and luxurious bedding, from sheets to pillows and duvet.
  • Bed frame (can be purchased at Cabela’s).
  • Inflatable mattress with repair kit

Good dinner:

Don’t forget to bring your spice rack. Your menu is important when it comes to glamping. Make this a picnic to remember. Cover the table with a beautiful tablecloth and crockery, plates, cloth napkins and utensils. Dress the table with an arrangement of local wildflowers. Candlelight. For some of their best red wines or try a specialty beer. Be creative in deciding which foods you choose. Plan ahead. Many meals can be fully or partially prepared in advance, giving you many more options when it comes to your glamping menu.

Closing Notes:

Glamping is perfect for weekend festivals or concerts, vacations, or even honeymoons. With so many options available, you can have a different experience every time you go glamping. Remember that glamping is all about comfort and most importantly, HAVE FUN!

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5 funny heartwarming stories

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Well, you’re about to move. She did her research on engines. I found a moving company with decent prices, somewhat decent reviews, and a manageable BBB rating. You packed most of your stuff. Moving day is coming up. Excited?

You might as well be, because you never know what’s in store for you on moving day!

Some of the funniest stories I’ve heard during my long career in the moving business:

  1. Knock Knock! Open the door. Your engines have arrived. Except they’re an exceptional team consisting of a 65-year-old man, an illegal immigrant who doesn’t speak English as he was randomly picked up at a random gas station, and a waitress from his local Waffle House. They all admit that this will be the first step in their lives. Except for the older gentleman who claims to be the leader of the crew. He believes in himself and in his team. This has happened to one of our clients several years ago. He called Milestone Relocation immediately after throwing (literally) his moving crew down the stairs.
  2. You move in today. Their movers are unreachable, and they’re obviously not here. You move alone or hire someone else. Two days later, the movers, the ones who never showed up, call him and tell him they’re going to be a little late because they have a flat tire. Funny sounds? It is a true story!
  3. The movers show up on time. Do an extremely good job. There is one item left in the truck: your grandmother’s old watch. A £200 watch, which is basically all he has left to remember her grandfather who passed away several years ago. The move went well, you and your family, including your grandmother, are watching as the movers prepare to unload the watch from the truck. for 97the time, he reminds his movers to be extra careful. They nod their heads confirming their understanding of the importance of this. One of them even says, “Don’t worry, we’re professionals!” Your grandmother is watching with relief: after all, the movers did a great job and can’t mess up the only item left. At the words “Don’t worry,” your grandma almost falls on her ass: she can’t believe the engines are screaming, the clock is falling 4 feet, and antique glass is everywhere!
  4. “I understand that my company charged you more than 3 times your estimate and refused to unload your items before you pay the full balance in cash. It’s nice that you’re so understanding. But we do work on a tip, and if you don’t get the right tip now, we’re not going to unload your belongings no matter what the company says.”
  5. “I just got back from jail. I did my 8 year sentence for beating my wife. Do you really think I care when you threaten me that you’re going to call the police because I’m not going to unload your stuff before you tip me?”

These stories are funny until they happen to you. Don’t be negligent. Protect yourself by carefully choosing a moving company. Do you investigate? Google it. Read reviews. Make sure they are licensed. And then when you help yourself, God will help you too.

Happy moving!

Digital Marketing

SERP Ranking Guide – How To Level Up Your Website’s SERP Ranking

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SERP (search engine results page) ranking is the most desirable place you want to have for your website. That is the result of any query or question on Google. Higher SERP ranking will ensure more traffic to your website. This will ensure high conversion rates. Here is a promising guide to get a better ranking.

Let’s first learn the Google SERP ranking game.

STEP -1 Attractive titles with suitable keywords

The title of your content is the first thing the user sees. It must be attractive enough, showing the ability to answer queries. And you must have keywords that can lead to relevant search results.

Google’s algorithm returns the most informative results. In their mission statement, they say that it is to organize the world’s information and make it universally accessible and useful.

You need to ensure trustworthy content for viewers once they launch your site. This is based on B2B or B2C searches. The easy way to do this is by creating catchy titles. These have to serve the purpose of the search. They have to be promising enough. For example, anyone searching for ‘cashback hacks’ will gravitate more towards a title like “10 Best Hacks For Amazing Cashbacks”. Instead of a simple one like “money back tricks”.

Developing new SEO strategies for your site is the next step. For that we know-

STEP-2 Understanding the Google Algorithm.

According to Moz, there are about 500-600 changes to the algorithm. Google executives like Gary Illyes and John Mueller in one way or another confirmed it. So stay up to date on new algorithm changes.

Your site may appear to be banned due to low traffic. But Google doesn’t always publicly declare the changes.

For example, the April 2015 Mobile-Friendly Update. Complies with favoring sites that are mobile-friendly. You can also impose sanctions on those who are not.

The Penguin update in 2012, which is designed to consider the search result spam. Most of the time it is done by buying links to boost Google rankings.

This and several other updates like Panda, Hummingbird, Google EMD, Phantom, Penguin, etc. they tell us a lot about the algorithm.

To track updates, you can visit sites like Moz’s Google Algorithm Change History. Knowing this will help you develop good strategies for SEO.

STEP-3 Know your current search ranking.

It is very important to know where you currently are. It is useful to assess their growth. Evaluating your SERP.COM keyword ranking will help you. This shows the number of results on monthly searches, ranking on specific search terms, cost per click for paid search, etc.

There are different analyzes that expose the reasons for the decrease in traffic. One of which is slow sites, this will decrease traffic noticeably. Delay of only 3-4 seconds tends to lose interest in the content. The best example of this is Walmart. WebPerformanceToday stated that Walmart saw a sharp decline in conversions after site load times increased by 4 seconds.

To help you rank, regularly check your site’s status on PageSpeedInsights.

STEP-4 Maintenance of organic traffic.

The traffic is more on organic sites than on non-organic sites. Visitors trust organic sites more. Non-organic sites like paid search and social media attract fewer visitors. According to BrightEdge, there were organic sites that attracted more than 51% of B2B and B2C website visitors. And Social was only able to do a mere 5%.

Although there is no harm in advertising your site, only if there are not enough or no results for the given search. In this case, visitors tend to visit non-organic sites as well. In doing so, ROI is the main factor to consider. Also, that PPC adds well to your site with good income.

STEP 5 Make your site mobile friendly for better SERP ranking.

If you haven’t made your website mobile-friendly, then that’s the first thing you should do now. Google’s algorithm favors mobile pages, as we discussed earlier. Mobile site optimization is a very important step.

Loading speed and a better mobile experience will boost your SERP ranking. One way to do this is to add an AMP (Accelerated Mobile Pages) stamp to your site results. This is Google’s project to ensure fast loading of mobile pages.

STEP-6 Research is the key

You have to do a lot of research for keywords. The best way to get the best SEO is by creating great content by using keywords. Commercial keywords serve this purpose. You have to deliver what the visitor wants.

If a visitor wants information about the search, you should add informational keywords. But if the visitor intends to buy something, the keywords must agree with it.

Research on your competitors is also an important aspect. Knowing what kind of content they offer through their site will help you optimize yours.

You can add publication dates to your site content. This will help you if the visitor wants the latest content. Adding a date will bring you more traffic as the visitor can be specific about the dates. You can always update the contents for the latest date.

STEP 7 Use Rich Snippets and Better Permalinks

The content of a website should answer a question through a short paragraph or a list for the search. Google can automatically include you in the SERP, which will allow you to gain more traffic.

These are mainly known as Rich Snippets. Adding informative content using proper keywords will help. The more traffic will lead to a higher ranking.

Permalinks are something visitors pay more attention to than you might think. If your permalinks consist only of symbols or numbers, visitors are more likely to not trust the site.

Ugly permalinks can cause traffic to drop. Permalinks should consist of keywords or search results. Many times your own title would serve the purpose well.

All in all, if you follow these simple steps, you could achieve a higher SERP ranking. In the end, for the best assistance, hire a professional company to increase your SERP ranking. So give your website that much-needed boost with the best digital marketing company.

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The use of herbs and spices

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For a true food adventure, you don’t have to go to China, Malaysia or Egypt. With a good stock of select herbs on the pantry shelf, the healthy cook can transform ordinary foods into exquisite delicacies. Dishes that have come down to us from distant countries and distant times can be prepared and have been translated into the true style of modern healthy cooking. Herbs were man’s first medicine and are widely practiced today. They give clues to delicious feasts and dishes smelling of aromatic fragrances and this is their true function. They are true plant substances with a pungent quality and ultimately belong in the nutritious kitchen.

Few kitchens rely on the old-fashioned herb garden, although fresh herbs are chosen much more than dried ones. If we don’t have room for a small kitchen herb garden, stock your pantry with a wide variety of dried herbs.

An abundance of herbs for your kitchen shelf does not mean large quantities should be used in food preparation. Herbs should be used with great caution. The touch of delicate flavor is much better than a brazen combination of strong and predominant flavor. The best herb cuisine is one in which the herbs used remain a mystery. If the flavor is so strong and distinctive that it can be detected instantly. And the dish is not a success. Of course, there are several exceptions to this rule; Special egg and chicken dishes require a pronounced taste of tarragon, where dill is used. It’s not supposed to be subtle, but a good rule of thumb for the experimenter is to be very careful to avoid over-flavoring.

Nothing can be more unpleasant or confusing to taste than the inappropriate or improper use of herbs and spices. Certain foods have strong affinities for particular herbs and spices that lift them out of the realm of amateur cooking. But using those same flattering plants in other foods could be a clash of tempers that screams indignant. The right combination of herbs, seeds and spices will be the most valuable guide to learn the magic touch of the best gourmet cuisine. This is the master chef’s secret key to the art of delicious food.

Some areas of caution in the use of herbs:

Average amounts: The warning to use herbs sparingly must be emphasized. Always remember that herbs are an accent of finished charm. It is not always advisable to follow recipes that call for herbs exactly. The exact ratio depends on the strength of the herbs. When we buy a new container of dried herbs, they are supposedly at their best. The longer we keep them on the shelf, they get weaker day after day. A good guide, though to use with discretion, is to use about ½ teaspoon of dried herbs in a dish designed to serve 8 people, decreasing or increasing depending on the number of servings desired.

To prevent herbal stains on food: Herb specks can be very alternative in some dishes and undesirable in others. If you want the finished dish to be clear, use the herb pack. (ie tie the required herbs in a piece of cloth) This bundle can be removed before serving.

To use in raw foods: Herbs must be placed in liquid well in advance. Sometimes it’s best to let them sit overnight to get the full flavor release. This is particularly true of fresh or canned vegetable juices.

To use in cooked foods: Herbs should be added only during the last hour of cooking, unless the recipe calls for another treatment.

Moisturizing herbs: If the herbs are going to “kiss” the dish, that is, if they are going to be used for a short time in the preparation, they must be moistened beforehand. Do it by letting them rest for three quarters of an hour slightly moistened with water, a little oil or a drop of milk. Herbs should not float in liquid, but simply be moistened. If time is short, the same faster flavor release effect can be obtained by tying the herbs in a bundle and immersing them for a few seconds in boiling water and then in ice water.

Note: It is not desirable to have a wide variety of herbs on the pantry shelf, do not buy them in large quantities. They don’t get better with age like a bottle of wine. They should be kept in a small, airtight container. Do not expose them to air longer than necessary. They should be opened only at the time of use and then immediately closed tightly. If we open them and they do not give off a fresh aroma, they should be discarded and replaced with fresh herbs.

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How I fell in love with my quiet and boring life

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Life was loud, chaotic and downright loud at times. But it’s also fun, carefree and full of predictability. There was always a lot of alcohol, a lot of people, a lot of talk, many nights and early mornings. Every week he went out. In some place. Anywhere. I met a lot of people and we went to a lot of places. If he wanted something, he would go out and buy it. Was young. He had a lot of money and tons of time to waste. And though he had it all, he still yearned for more. Truth be told, all he had was stuff. stuff. He hardly had any real memories or experiences. He was out doing whatever felt right. He was about 70 pounds overweight, drunk all the time, careless and recklessly in love. Think of the movie National Lampoon’s Animal House mixed with Coyote Ugly. Yes, that was me. Any other day. While most people tend to wait until the weekends to have fun, I would power up from Monday to Friday and use Saturday to sleep everything. On Sundays, I would take a break, but only to prepare to do it all over again the next day. My hangovers weren’t just from booze-filled nights. I was hungover from a high lifestyle. He was always on the move and hardly ever slowed down. I was constantly looking for a good time. When I wasn’t having a good time, I would go down from my highs to a very exhausting low. This is how I came to the conclusion that this persecution was not good for me. In fact, it’s safe to say it was all an escape from a life he hated. I will never forget a day contemplating if I wanted to go home. I remember looking at my watch while still at the office, logging online to find flights to book out of town, dropping everything, and never looking back. What stopped me was our son. She loved him more than life and she absolutely had to go home with him. But he knew something had to give. I knew that the only way life could get better for me was if I just started walking towards who I was meant to be instead of continually walking away from him, losing myself.

I can’t pinpoint exactly the actual day I got fed up. I just remember there was a fire that lit in me one day that he told me to turn down the volume on my spirit because the volume was no longer working for me. The man I had thought he would die with and officially decided to part with after 19 years together. It had to happen. It was divide or die. We no longer have anything in common. We’ve already been teetering on the inevitable for years, we just needed to admit it out loud. We spent several years lying to our family and friends about what was really going on between us, but we knew what was coming. Spending money, buying things, drinking and partying and consuming whatever we could get our hands on just kept us distracted from our dysfunction. I do not change it. It only kept us distracted long enough to avoid having to face reality. This happens a lot in marriages, whether many of us want to own it or not. Ignoring the truth does not make it go away. It just hides it. But this was only part of the problem. Things in my life were always so damn loud and active and noisy. He feared boredom but needed peace.

After our separation, I knew that my next steps were going to be difficult to adapt but necessary. Imagine spending 19 years with someone and then one day, no. I had to start a new journey in my life that didn’t include someone else all the time. Literally. I knew I could do it, but I needed a starting point. This is what I did to make the process easier.

  • do things alone – I started by making sure I slept alone. Each night. I hadn’t slept or done anything alone since the year 1999, so this move was very important. She needed to be alone with everything she did. Everything! She went out every day alone. I made sure to go to places that were packed with people. He hung out or ate alone. I used to go to the movies and screenings alone. I did not go out. I sat in the parks alone. I traveled alone. Yes, even to remote places and cities. I would look at the people. I’m scared of it. I would write. I made sure no one knew where I was going. I would just go. The goal for me was to learn to enjoy my own company. I adapted pretty quickly. I don’t know why doing things alone is considered an anomaly nowadays, but I fell in love. I also learned that someone walking around alone does not mean that he or she is lonely or has no friends. It simply means that they are not prepared to entertain company or socialize at the time. This was perfectly fine for me. I felt more compelled to try new things without the added background noise. It has made me much more focused than I have ever been.

  • clutter removed – Clean my house. I removed the walls. I bought a new bed. I gave away a lot of old furniture and threw the rest in the trash. I took all but one of my credit cards out of my wallet, called the companies, paid off the balances, closed the accounts and cut them off! I gave most of my clothes to my mother and sister-in-law and kept about ten outfits for myself. I have about four pairs of shoes and maybe a pair of boots. It may be less than that. I shop seasonally and it’s never really what’s in season so I don’t know. I had too much stuff and I’m sure I had it around me because I attributed my happiness to it. Most of these items had very little meaning. It clogged my house, it left very little room and I was tired of looking at it. I even sold my car. What was the use? I live in the city. I take the train or carpool like Uber or Lyft wherever I go, which often isn’t a lot of places. I’ve become quite minimalist. My house is big but now it’s empty, filled with nothing but books, two capes, plants, my son’s instruments, a few laptops, and food. I hate clutter and excess. Living without him has become my new normal.

  • Got rid of distractions – I unfollowed all celebrities on social media (with the exception of a small handful I actually know) and other people I don’t share a close personal connection with. I then deleted all social media apps. I don’t mind keeping up with trends or people I don’t know. Many of the people in my life were some of my biggest distractions. There is such a thing as meeting too many people. It’s not because they’re bad people, but because friendships were based on superficial ideals and got me nowhere. Unless there was something to go out and gossip and take some selfies while drinking, we barely had two words to say to each other. These relationships became stocks that needed to be sold quickly because the value had fallen dramatically from the initial purchase price. They knew it. I knew it. The distance widened, and as things began to change for me, within a few months we stopped talking. Friendships are beautiful to have. They can be fruitful, but they can also be exhausting. Nobody likes a loss. It is admitting that something went wrong or that you made a mistake. But cutting your losses can prevent you from taking a devastating drop that’s too steep to recover from later. Most of us get something wrong 3 out of 5 times a day. We still live to see another day. I still know a lot of people, but I only have a small handful of real friends. Trust me, there is a difference. Alcohol was the biggest distraction of all for me, so I stopped drinking. I gave up cold turkey. Alcohol not only kept me drunk all the time, it also kept me fat and sick. Eat out, too. I changed my relationship with food because I ate too much for no reason. Since then I have lost the 70 pounds I gained plus 20 more and have never felt better.

In a nutshell, getting things done just helped me better control my thoughts so I could sort out and get rid of all the distractions. The reward is that I have been able to reap the benefits of simplifying my lifestyle. I have gained a lot by getting rid of almost everything. It’s taught me a lot about myself over the years, like how much I hate hoarding things and molding my happiness around objects and people. I hate doing things in excess. I’ve gotten into the idea that I don’t need to be around people all the time to be happy and excited. I have learned to set limits. I’ve learned to stop stretching myself so much and take more care of myself. Even my relationship with money has changed. Drastically. I have learned that the value is in the respect that one must have for the dollar. I never had respect for money before. All he knew how to do was spend it. I realized that everything I had ever wanted and needed I had had all along and everything else was a matter of social currency rather than a happy life.

We live in an era where social status is the new currency. That’s why we take photos of everything we do and promote our lifestyle on social media in the “be like me” style. Social media and current culture say that our pedigree and class are now strictly based on social engagement and how much we receive rather than how much we give of ourselves. To some extent, it has always been this way, but never to this extent. An environment where we feel the perceived need to realize our ambitions in a publicly documented format to keep pace with our peers has now been created and has become a soul-sucking trap. Many of us are deathly afraid of living unfiltered lifestyles because it goes against social norms and is considered risky.

But, it is not who we really are nor is it what we really want. Trust me, if everyone was as fit and happy as they picture themselves to be, the world wouldn’t be in such chaos. We go out of our way to hurt each other often and are always seemingly stuck in a perpetual cycle of constant confusion. This is why depression is on the rise and more people are dying younger. You don’t notice these things when they’re happening because we’re socially conditioned to keep up appearances. We have grown to fix our personalities around the idea that nothing we have or do is worth anything unless others approve of it. It’s a shame that every decision we make has to do with making sure someone knows or sees it, in some way. Sun to sun. Every day. All the time.

I’m the happiest I’ve been since I stopped bothering with all that crap. He didn’t do anything for me anyway. He added nothing to my life. Literally nothing. I once avoided boredom and quiet rooms like infectious diseases. Now, I can’t get enough of either one. I divorced the shift in exchange for staying home, eating kid-friendly snacks, playing interactive games, cooking, and reading with my son. Turns out I’m having a lot more fun! My sleep habits are better. My attitude improved a lot. I am much more focused. My hair has started to grow again, my skin glows, my house is quiet, and my heart is full.

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10 great tips for picking up strippers

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If you’ve ever been to a strip club, you’ve probably noticed that they’re usually full of very drunk and very delusional men who sit there ravenously staring at the naked beauties on stage like they’re rib eye steak.

You see them stuffing their hard-earned dollars into the skimpy outfits of these generally beautiful women and you’d probably think, who is he kidding? That stripper isn’t going to sleep with him, she’s just throwing her money down the drain.

Well I know that’s what I thought when I first walked into a strip club but then an hour later I started to get a little bored and wanted to get closer to the action and next thing I know I’m the same dumb horny. my hard earned dollars on the panty strap of a very evocative young lady.

On those nights, I would go home alone and broke and end up masturbating in front of my computer; It wasn’t until this had happened to me more times than I care to admit that I decided to do something about it and that’s when I decided to spend a lot of my free time mastering stripper seduction.

At first I thought maybe it was the way I dressed, or maybe I didn’t seem to have enough money. So I went and tweaked my style and filled my wallet with 100 dollar bills, this didn’t make me go to bed, it just made me look like a brand easier.

So I thought maybe I should start acting like a jerk to them and this didn’t get me laid either, it just kicked me out of some strip clubs.

Then I finally decided to take a more intellectual approach, I began to study a lot of seduction material and began to understand the basics of attraction through the help of seduction sites and what would you know, it worked, I developed my own method of consistently able to seduce the strippers.

I’m not just talking about once every two weeks, I’m talking about every time I’d set foot in a strip club I’d go home with a stripper and here are my 10 tips to help you do the same. .

Stripper Pick Up Tip 1: Act like you own the place.

When you go to a strip club, you want to give off the image that you’re an important guy and not just another easy brand.

Be social with the staff and get to know them from name to name; If you see someone else who seems important then introduce yourself to them too, if you hang out with the right people strippers will look at you more positively and give you more respect.

It’s a bit like a high school popularity contest, if they see you hanging out with cool guys instead of losers, hot girls will think you’re a cool guy and want to meet you. In strip clubs, the bartenders and security are the cool guys and the sleazy, desperate customers are the losers.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 2: Don’t do it objectively.

Most guys think that by seeing a stripper expose herself on stage, the stripper is demeaning herself and this could be true; however, what you also need to keep in mind is that this is a two way street and by objectifying the girl on stage you are also objectifying yourself as a desperate horny guy who has to pay to see a naked girl .

Look strippers in the eye instead of looking at their bodies, it will make them feel like you see them as real people instead of naked barbies and this will set you apart from all the other goofballs.

When you catch their gaze, make sure to hold it, this will show them that you are an alpha male and encourage them to come closer to you.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 3: Try not to overthink it..

When trying to seduce a stripper, you must first create a connection with her and make her feel that she is special.

It’s not like a brothel where you can choose and it doesn’t matter because you pay for it and it’s a simple transaction strippers aren’t whores and your goal is to sleep with them for free so if you want to go home with them you should treat them like people and not as sale items.

When you see the stripper you like, try to stick to your target. You might meet one and find that you don’t like her personality and want to move on and that’s fine as long as you don’t do it too often. Realistically, you can afford 2-3 changes before it looks like you’re just buying sleaze.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 4: Make her sell herself.

The more you can get a stripper to sell to you, the more she will become invested in you as a person.

When you start a conversation with her, make her feel like she’s the seller and not you. If she offers you a lap dance, have her tell you what makes her lap dances so good.

Don’t be an easy sell because the more you make her work for it, the more she’ll respect you as a person. It will also make your interaction seem more like a seduction than a transaction.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 5: Get his real name.

When girls start working in strip clubs, they are usually asked to come up with a stripper name, such as Crystal, Dakota, or Mercedes; this is done for various reasons such as.

-It is quite common for strippers to have stalkers and giving them a false name makes it more difficult for them to locate them outside of work hours.

-It allows them to adopt alternate personalities and psychologically distance themselves from their clientele.

-Many men find exotic stripper names to be sexually appealing and dehumanize the women they pay to sexualize themselves.

By getting his real name, you are making your interaction that much more personal and this is a vital foundation for any successful seduction. A good way to get their name is to tell them something like…

“I can’t take a lap dance from a stranger, but if you tell me your real name, I guess you won’t be a stranger anymore.”

When a stripper gives you her real name, she has made a significant investment in you as a person and has entrusted you with very personal information about her. This is crucial to her wanting to go home with you at the end of the night.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 6: Pay for a dance but don’t let her dance.

This is the point where you will really stand out from many of your regular customers. What you want to do is pay her for a lap dance, and then when she starts dancing, tell her you’d like to get to know her better first, and sit her next to you.

Once she’s sitting next to you, have her talk about herself, her passions, and her interests. At about this time you want to make her feel like she’s on a date instead of working, it also shows her that you’re more interested in her personality than her body.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 7: Take your mind off work.

When you talk to her, make sure the topic of conversation never falls back on her job as a stripper.

Your goal is to make him forget that he is at work because this will make him treat you more like a person than a client. Get her to talk about things that interest her outside of work and encourage her to share some interesting and endearing things about your life with her.

For example, you could talk to her about her pet dog or the places she has traveled; most girls can relate to topics like these and she is much more likely to open up to you if she feels you have opened up to her, this creates a sense of trust and connectedness.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 8: Show no shame.

While you’re at the club, make sure you don’t seem embarrassed to be there.

If a stripper thinks you’re ashamed to be there, you’ll look like a loser and make her feel like she should be ashamed to be there.

Always be proud of yourself and focus on having a good time, don’t let anyone think that you think you’re doing something shameful or immoral by being there. This is a huge turn off for strippers.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 9: Don’t propose strippers for sex.

If you have a thing for a stripper and you think she might be up for a late-night debauchery, the worst thing you can do is propose sex directly.

If you do this, she’ll assume you think she’s a prostitute and probably

A) Get offended because he thinks she is a prostitute and walk away.

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B) Decide that if you think she’s a prostitute, it’s better that she charge you for it, even though she planned to sleep with you for free.

The best way to proposition a stripper is to suggest some activity to her after she’s done, which would probably lead to sex without saying sex, for example you could say “Do you want to come have a drink with me somewhere after you’re done?” ?”. Or you could invite her to swim in your pool or watch a movie at your house.

Be creative. You want to suggest an activity that leads to sex without actually being sex.

Stripper Pick Up Tip 10: Do your best to make it happen at night.

Even if a stripper gives you her number, her email, her Facebook, etc. if she doesn’t go home with you that night, chances are she never will.

Although she might have been interested the moment she met you, more often than not she will wake up the next morning and have serious doubts about her judgment from the night before. Most strippers have a rule of never going out with clients, however going home with them is a whole different can of beans.

If you think she is interested, then you should push the idea of ​​her coming back to your house or meeting her that same night. Essentially, you want to hit while the iron is hot because the longer it takes until you see her again, the more chance you have of sleeping with her.

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My husband says there is no hope for us or our marriage

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I often hear from wives whose husbands tell them that there is no longer any hope for marriage. I recently heard from a woman who had been doing everything she could to save her marriage. They had gone to counseling. They had made trips. They had “worked” on the marriage. And, while the wife felt that she had seen some improvements, the husband did not feel the same. Basically, he had told the wife that he felt there was “no hope” for the marriage. He told her that he was going to seek a divorce soon and felt that they should go their separate ways.

The wife had a hard time accepting that there was no hope for them. She firmly believed that if her husband were open-minded and gave marriage a chance, there would certainly be hope. But, she couldn’t seem to convince him of this and she wasn’t sure what to do. I will discuss more about this matter in the next article.

Your husband cannot take away your hope without your permission: Obviously, the two spouses had a different vision of marriage and the future. This happens sometimes. But, one person’s perceptions don’t always have to be the same as another’s. And sometimes people’s perceptions are wrong and can change over time, especially if you’re successful in showing them something that changes their minds.

That is not to say that the husband was not firm in his beliefs. But the two obviously had a different perception. And, the wife did not need to give up hers just because his was different. I have seen many marriages on the obvious brink of disaster turn around, even when both people had seemingly given up hope. So being hopeless doesn’t always mean you have to give up yours. This is really your choice because your perceptions are shaped by your own feelings and decisions, not his.

Don’t worry so much about defining or quantifying the relationship all the time. Just focus on making improvements and see where that leads: People often use their partner’s descriptions as a kind of indicator of how things will turn out. Many people will hear the words “hopeless” and immediately shut down or consider giving up. And sometimes this makes sense if you keep trying the same things that don’t work and then cause you pain. There is nothing wrong with making the best decision for you or changing course.

But sometimes you can get so caught up in definitions that you let it make you lose sight of what you want or prevent you from making improvements. I often tell myself not to get so caught up in what people say every day or in “controlling” how you feel moment by moment. Things can and do change. There is no point in hanging on to every word before something has definitely happened.

Sometimes it’s much better if you just focus on small goals that allow you to feel a little personal hope. In other words, if you’re just trying to improve the give-and-take between you or to see even some small improvements in the way you interact and feel, this often feels much more doable than trying to make him change his mind or save. Your marriage. evening.

You really can’t know what tomorrow will bring. But even small gains can really provide the foundation for much larger gains in the days, weeks, and months to come. Sometimes slow and steady really does win the race. When it’s not completely obvious what you’re trying to do, you’re often met with a lot less resistance, which can really make a difference.

It is not always hope that saves marriages. It is gradual action that leads to new insights: As counterintuitive as it may seem right now, you don’t always have to believe 100% that everything is going to work out perfectly. Sometimes you can take small steps and feel your way as you go, moving toward places where you see improvement and away from places where you encounter obstacles.

And, it’s not uncommon for husbands to start changing when they’re shown (rather than told) that things can change without an unbearable amount of work or sacrifice on their part. The key really is to start making small improvements that are sustainable but substantial enough to change the bottom line. You probably know your marriage well enough to know where these efforts and changes are most needed.

So while he’d probably feel a lot better about you if you knew he’s as hopeful as he was, his perceptions don’t have to become yours. This husband had not yet filed for divorce. There may still be time. Therefore, if she knows in her heart that there are still some actions she must take, there is nothing to say that she cannot control her own actions and try new things. This may work and it may not, but at least you’ll know you did your best and didn’t fall for someone else’s perceptions that weren’t your own.

Pets

The History of the Boston Terrier

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The history of the Boston Terrier dates back to 1865 in Boston, Massachusetts with a dog named Hooper’s Judge. Purchased by Robert C. Hooper, Judge was part English Bulldog and part English Terrier (an all-white breed). Weighing approximately 32 pounds, he was tall in stature with a dark brindle coat, a white stripe across his face and a square, blocky head.

Judge soon came across a white Bulldog-type female named “Burnett’s Gyp” who was short in stature with a short square head and weighed approximately 20 pounds. One of the offspring named “Wells’ Eph” was crossed with a bitch “Tobin’s Kate” and began the evolution of the Boston Terrier breed.

They were first found in fighting pits, but it was quickly recognized that they were incredibly devoted to their masters and were used as family dogs.

In 1891, they were considered to breed true to form and established as a breed of dog. The breeders decided to form the American Bullterrier Club of Boston and quickly applied to become members of the American Kennel Club.

The newly formed club met resistance, as their breed did not resemble a Bullterrier. After much debate, a noted writer and authority, James Watson, suggests that the breed adopt a name that reflects its roots. The breed had been developed and bred in and around Boston, so naturally “Boston Terrier” would be most suitable. The Boston Terrier Club was officially formed and in 1893 it was granted membership in the American Kennel Club, making it the first American breed to be recognized by the organization.

In the early 1900s and 1920s, breeders began to focus on body markings and proportions, and the Boston Terrier moved out of the now-illegal fighting ring for a more relaxed life as a companion. By the 1950s, the Boston Terrier had defined itself as a family dog.

Nicknamed the American Gentleman for his gentle disposition and tuxedo markings, today’s Boston Terrier is consistently at the top of family dog ​​lists, a far cry from the breed’s early days in the fighting pits.

Real Estate

5 tips for buying electrical cables

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If you want to do some wiring projects in your home, you need high quality electrical cables. Therefore, it is important that you choose a quality product. This is very important from a security perspective. Also, good quality cables will save you on electricity bills in the future. If you are looking for tips on buying electrical cables, this article can help. keep reading

In your local market, you can find many electrical vendors for this type of product. Therefore, it can be a bit difficult for you to choose the right seller. However, to make it easier for you, we have listed a few features you can look for in the cables you want to buy.

Material:

Two types of materials are generally used to make electrical cables: aluminum and copper. If you need them for home wiring, we suggest you always go for quality copper. Apart from this, you should go for multi-stranded cables instead of single-stranded cables. The important thing is that the cable has a quality mark called ISI. Second, you should look for the electrolytic grade. It is recommended to buy copper wires with an electrolytic grade of 99.97%.

wire size

In general, the most common size of the cables is between 1 mm2 and 4 mm2. For AC points, the recommended size is 4 or 6 mm2. For light points, the most used size is 1.5 mm2 and so on. Choosing the correct size is very important or you may be wasting your money on unnecessarily thick cables.

wire insulation

Good electrical cables usually come with three layers of insulation. The first layer offers protection against water. The second layer offers heat protection and the third layer provides fire protection. Fire and heat resistant products generally come with a quality mark of HRFR. Ideally, you should look for cables that can withstand a temperature of over 100 degrees Celsius.

Wire insulation color

Since there are three phases, you need to choose three different colors for the wires. Mainly, black is for the neutral wire. Green is used for the ground wire. But keep in mind that the color for neutral and earth may be different depending on the country you live in. For example, in the United States, live wires can be blue, red, or black. On the other hand, neutral is white or gray. In India, on the other hand, green is the ground wire.

wire length

You can check the length by looking at the package. On the coil pack, you can read the length and rates of the wires. Length is usually written in meters and most coils are 90 meters.

Therefore, this information can help you choose the right copper wires for your home’s electrical wiring.