Feng Shui is about using the environment to modify or change behavior. As we know, it is part of child development that adolescent behaviors change. Sometimes it can be pretty bad. It is normal and natural and we have to accept it. We know that there is a balance between the two extremes of “love” and the use of “punishment”. We have a narrow road to travel.

There is a technique that is not well used in the West for behavior improvement. This is using feng shui in the bedroom.

How does this work?

Feng shui is a Chinese environmental management system that developed with the rise of Chinese civilization some 40 centuries ago. It is about managing the environment to change or modify behavior. The suggestions in this article refer to creating a “non-aggressive” environment. In addition, the child’s behavior will be more in line with the values ​​of the parents.

It is about the redecoration of the bedroom.

1.color

The color of the room should be changed to a non-aggressive or neutral color such as beige or any earth tone. Avoid pink or fuchsia for young girls: they will mature too soon and possibly adopt the values ​​of celebrity culture. Also, don’t have strong colors like black, red, or blue.

2. Photos

Eliminate aggressive images and replace them with aspirational and positive ones, such as sports heroes, reputable music and television stars, even prominent businessmen or academics. Emphasize the values ​​of good morals and non-violence.

3. Clutter.

Clear the room of clutter, especially under the bed. Whenever possible, it’s good practice to make your bed correctly every day. Also, reinforce the habit of keeping the room clean and tidy.

4. Bed position.

As part of the redecoration, reposition the bed so that it faces the same direction as the parents. The child will come to have views more similar to those of the parents.

Conclusion:

Having a teenage son who misbehaves is a difficult situation for the family. This passive method involves the bedroom where the child spends at least 8 hours in a day.

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